Don’t Over-Plan for the New Year

Are you busy filling your new planner, journal, calendar and mind with all you want to do and accomplish this year? Have you been told that unless you plan and state goals, preferably in writing, you won’t get anywhere or meet your dreams?

Certainly list making has advantages;  checking each to-do off feels good and is it’s own reward…we all need rewards. But I suggest that you relegate the list planning to short term,  daily or weekly to-dos, and not the whole month, year, big picture and all the steps that go into making it happen. Unless you are an architect fo something, all this planning will shut your down and keep you trapped inside.

When you over plan, you are severely limiting your intuition, gut, sixth sense, or higher self Spirit help you. These are unseen entrances to your personal and collective inner vision.  Inner vision is much expanded clarity and insight; stretching the vision, and image of your self and your place in the big picture bigger, wider, and deeper.

Your intuition and brain need a gap of time, seconds to minutes, to get through to your  thoughts, actions and feelings.  The gap happens when you listen, slow down and take a moment to be still and silent. This is what mindfulness breaks are all about. Take them during the day and evening whenever you can. You’ll benefit even more over time from engaging the mind by disengaging the mind 1 to 5 minutes at a time.

Let your imagination go free for the big stuff. Let your dreams come from a limit-free place inside your brain, heart, expanded consciousness, intuition and Spirit, if that resonates with you too.

Your left brain will handle the details and the deadlines- it loves to do this anyway, so trust it to take over and get things prioritized and done. If you must make a list, keep it to a couple of words per line that summarize the concept of what needs to be remembered and a deadline date if there is one. Try not relying on it and see how well your left hemisphere plays secretary for your life. Use a pop-up or sound notification on your computer or phone for actual appointments. Use technology to your advantage, letting your memory work on what you need it to remember instead.

Albert Einstein came to believe that our imagination is more powerful than knowledge and more important too. If you would like to learn more about using your whole brain, contact me. I give workshops, presentations and one-on-one consulting on Using your Whole Brain to Navigate the Life Your Create.

Then focus on what is in front of you when wondering what to do next. Do what has presented itself to you. This Way of proceeding is as old as the Tao. Trusting and being in the present keeps anxiety and worry at bay…out of the way.

With the stress response and accompanying chemicals under wraps, you will be calm and focused on what you are doing facilitating your getting it done effectively and quicker than if mental worry or physical tension interrupt your flow. Let your imagination take center stage you have found the door to freedom. I’ll tell you how to get there in the next blog post. Sign up for email versions or RSS feeds in the upper right side of this page.

Wishing you a beautifully lived unplanned day,

Kim

 

 

 

 

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Words of Intention for 2012

intentions for 2012 reflecting back to youHave you chosen your words of intention for 2012 yet? They can change your mind and change your brain.

Circulate, step-up and intuit are my words for this year. This is the first year I’ve picked three. Dr. Susan Giurleo,  online marketing guru for psychotherapists,  made the recommendation and asked her readers to put our three words in the comments box. Now I’m asking you to do the same.

In case you aren’t familiar with this New Year ritual, it’s been around for about 5 or 6 years it seems and because of the internet grew worldwide quickly. It’s not uncommon to be asked come January “What is your word for the year?”

Here is how I describe which words to chose.  Think of one to three that encompass and expand on what you would like to make happen this year. These are not words that describe things, but thoughts, behaviors or feelings that you want to have more of in 2012, and ever after that.

What you focus on most, eventually wires your brain into that pattern of firing which then anchors your perception of the gap where the concept or action behind the word is needing to be expressed through your thoughts, feelings or behavior. With repeated firing, you have expanded perception of the gap and your expression of the word’s concept will follow easily and effortlessly to you.

Take for example my word Step-up. To me this means say yes to opportunities to speak and teach that are out there now. With this word signifying an entire concept in mind, I will hear, see and be told about speaking and workshop teaching opportunities in my town and on the web, as I have before, but this year, I will act on the information. I will inquire and if it’s a good fit,  submit a proposal and go for it!

To summarize, pick a word(s) that symbolizes for you a concept, feeling, or action of an expression of your self that is not as sparkly as you want it to be. Limit yourself to 3 so that you can remember them and focus on them. Put words in an active form, rather than passive if it applies. The active from feels activated with your energy just by saying it more than the passive verb form will. Stepping up is passive, step-up is active.

Ok? This is fun AND it changes your brain, so go for it by listing your words below.

Happy New Year to you all!

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Depression and Spontaneous Happiness

I received an email today from Dr. Andrew Weil, MD describing his newest book titled “Spontaneous Happiness,” because I attended the first ever Integrative Mental Health conference which Dr. Weil developed and presented along with other top mental health professionals from all fields of research and treatment. Exciting and inspiring, with a loving group of people in attendance who were all ears to hear the experts, including psychiatrists and MDs talk about alternatives to hard core medicines for the treatment of depressions and anxieties, among other diagnosis.

I highly recommend Spontaneous Happiness if you are seeking help and have not found relief from the traditional treatments. Also if you have not seen a professional about your concerns because you don’t want to go on drugs. Please get the help you need, and you can talk about medication later if it comes up. This new book will give you information to take with you so that you can discuss your options. Don’t give up on your self.

Dear Colleague:

I am writing to let you know about the publication of my new book Spontaneous
Happiness by Little, Brown & Co. It builds on themes presented at the
Integrative Mental Health Conference you attended in March of 2010, especially
the limitations of the biomedical model of mental health.

In the book I analyze the causes of the current epidemic of depression and give
many nondrug options for managing it. I am fascinated by the cytokine
hypothesis of depression, which links it to increased inflammation; probably,
an anti-inflammatory diet and lifestyle can help prevent and treat depression.

Also I give a step-by-step eight week program for moving toward optimum
emotional well-being, with recommendations for caring for the body, retraining
the mind, and attending to secular spirituality.

I became happier as a result of writing this book, and I hope you will become
happier by reading it. I also hope it will be useful to you in your
professional work.

Andrew T. Weil, MD
Director, Arizona Center for Integrative Medicine
Clinical Professor of Medicine
Jones-Lovell Chair in Integrative Rheumatology
University of Arizona
http://about.me/DrWeil
www.azcim.org

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Random thoughts on Creativity, our Brains, Steve and Albert

Clearing my desk, I found a haiku I wrote which started this creative train of thought for my blog today.

fall shadows falling
changing light toward healing
mother nature rests
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Albert Einstein said “the intuitive mind is a Sacred Gift, and the rational mind is a faithful servant. We have created a society that honors the servant but has forgotten the Gift.”
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Drawing from a recent health article in the NY Times on the history of research on the brain; it was once pondered why if the right and left hemispheres are separate systems does the brain have a sense of unity? This question was unanswered until the late 1970′s when the field of cognitive neuroscience was founded by psychologist/linguist George A. Miller, who blended psychology and biology.

Where is the sense of unity originating? We know that the left brain takes in bits of information (from the scanning of the right brain and senses) and it fills in the missing info or gaps with its ever running narration, or story. Loosely put, the left brain is the interpreter, the right brain is the creator.  So the left brain narrator causes the illusion of our coherent self with a meaningful script.
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Ever wonder why time seems to stop and your feel yourself in a flow when creating something? When tuned into your right brain predominantly (it’s a myth to think that they operate on and off, both hemispheres are always operating) novelty, change, random  favored over linear and “fitting,” are free to roam without the narrator . This makes time appear to stop. Time is linear and a function of the left brain.
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7  secrets to Steve Jobs’ success as told in the book “The Innovation Secrets of Steve Jobs,  insanely different principles for breakthrough success,” simplified-

1. Do what you love, don’t settle. Passion is everything.
2. Put a dent in the universe with a big bold clear and concise vision.
3. Say no to 1000 things- reduce clutter, stay focused, streamline, simplicity is everything
4. Kick start your brain by doing something new
5. Sell dreams not products
6. Create insanely innovative experiences
7. Master the message
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Check out another book about Jobs also by Carmine Gallo “The Presentation Secrets of Steve Jobs: How to Be Insanely Great in Front of Any Audience.”
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I hope you enjoyed your momentary mindful foray in our amazing creative process.  Let if flow, let it flow, let it flow.

Comments always welcome :) 

Blessings to you,

Kim

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Resilience After Capture – Meet Inspiring Women


Auschwitz Survivor Sows Seeds of Peace tells the story (in brief) of Eva Kor, who was taken along with her identical twin sister Miriam, to be used in medical research experiments by Dr. Joseph Mengeles in 1944. She is still alive and speaking out to remind science and medical researchers that human beings are not objects, not things. Text and video

Amanda Lindhout goes back to Somalia where she was held captive and brutalized for 15 months, to help feed the starving. Video about her return.

Amanda has gone on to form the non-profit organization Global Enrichment Foundation

Jaycee Dugard, is the 11 year old girl kidnapped and held prisoner in a known sexual predictors back yard for 18 years. She birthed two children and fostered a loving family unit in their tent,  including educating the girls by watching TV to get a sense of the world outside and remembering what she had been taught up to 5th grade. Two years after their release from solitary captivity, she has written her biography and agreed to a prime time TV interview with Diane Sawyer. Videos

For an excerpt from her book “A Stolen Life” and an opportunity to help families of kidnapped children by purchasing a beautiful sterling silver pinecone charm. The last thing Jaycee saw before she was stun gunned and kidnapped was a pinecone in the street. Today, she wears the charm around her neck. It is her symbol of the hope that she would return home again. Hope and a butterfly ring her mom had given her kept her resilience going for the three years before her first daughter was born. Text

Rachel Chapman’s capture is not at the hands of kidnappers, but a wheelchair. She is paralyzed as a result of an innocent push into the swimming pool on the night of her bachelorette party. But she and her husband, Chris Chapman were recently wed, little more than a year after the accident, and treated to a wedding and honeymoon of their dreams. I include her here because of her bravery and optimism in facing life in a wheelchair. Neither she or Chris are angry or bitter, although it’s been tough adjusting. The Today Show remodeled their home to accommodate wheelchair access and give them privacy they so longed for since their world turned upside down. Videos.

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Poetry After Meditation

Those who meditate know that every meditation session is not outstanding, deep or special. Sometimes it’s difficult to still the mind, other times it’s an in and out experience. Last week this is what flowed into my journal immediately following a session-

Lighthouse

 

Neurochemicals flood my brain
I’m not feeling any pain

Sweet-ness is in the air
light-filled sensations are the faire

As this session comes to end
I’m not wanting to, I can’t pretend

Another time of meditation brought this brief entry-

Like the white cream filling in Twinkies
when I was a kid
I feel that airy & sweet &  delicious inside

And after this I found my self with a pen still flowing -

 Heaven touching Earth, soul touching soul
pure essence of All
If only for a moment it’s worth what I tow

To be here each day, making the time
finding the space
clearing my mind to step into grace and soar

Reaching beyond the boundaries of skin
past the ethereal
into the real, not seen, but known as the Truth,
the pearl

 

The light streams forth into my mind & body
the spark of creation
forever wanting to find Its expression through me on Earth


Why not see what comes through you after meditation? Just have your journal or a note pad and pen close by. When your session ends and you are slowly returning  your gaze and mind to the day, hold your pen on the paper and  let it write. PenguinsLet it flow without interruption or correcting anything. I don’t even pay attention to what I’m writing until I’m totally done. I stop the flow when I let my conscious mind or critical mind get involved. When complete, I reread it a couple of times. Sometimes I make a couple changes, other times I think it’s awful and do nothing to it.  Some I  read again weeks or months later and they make more sense or flow better to my eyes. It’s all good and lots of fun.

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Without a Vision, What Moves Us into Action

Have you wondered how you can  achieve or contribute to your higher purpose if you can’t yet see the big picture at the end?

I got stuck here and went into waiting mode thinking I had to have the clear vision first in order to know how to proceed. I moved along on what I perceived through meditation and intuition, but they were not IT in my mind. They were background.

When people asked me what I was doing, I’d say I don’t know yet, but it’s right around the corner, I can just feel it it’s so close now. I’ve been meditating and studying every day to figure out the Big It that is my purpose.

Once I knew the Big It, I’d know the next meaningful step to take and the next. Each would be crucial to the Big plan. See it, feel it, realize it, in that order. Don’t worry abut the how.

Then I heard a speaker, Rev. Frank Elliott,  whose words deeply inspired me as he talked about creating his life by listening to the still small voice inside. Today, as a graduate of the Agape University of Spiritual Transformation and Leadership, he is a part time minister, speaker and he specializes in grief counseling and hospice at various centers in Los Angeles.

His words deeply inspired me that day by connecting me to a more acute present sense of responsibility for my time left on earth this incarnation. I made two commitments to myself following his talk, that required ongoing effort on my part and facing fears and both were realized within the week. The ongoing one continues and is getting easier. The fear I push aside when it rises, realizing it’s of no consequence that is more important than that effort which my inner wisdom, my Soul, asks of me.

Inspiration is an overused word levied about these days as if it could be bought at the grocery or bookstore anytime you need a little hit. I tend to find inspiration that leads to sustained change rather rare. It’s a gift that comes around now and again.

I’m not talking about sunsets, beautiful music or writing that inspire by connecting me with the beauty of nature and human emotions. This is a gift too, yes, and may indeed be a deep inspiration to people. For me though, it is not.

Deep inspiration comes in many forms from many places and when it occurs, the whole body and mind come alive. Mine was swept up as Rev. Frank spoke. I resonated with much of what he said. I’d heard it before.  Something about that day, his energy, the way he spoke the words he chose and my need to hear it without resisting by focusing my full attention in the present, invited it all to came together and I received the creative spark he summoned into the room that morning. The spark from Source entered me and flowed through me and change happened, as I created different responses to some situations asking for my attention.

I made direct contact with that great sense of knowing that is both in me, as my Soul, and in the energy that is around me, that is Spirit, God.

In answer to my opening question, Rev. Frank advises you be an open vessel allowing the spark of creativity to flow through you and catch up with the vision if you have one. If you don’t have one, than whatever you do, don’t stop the flow of the creativity by being in waiting mode, stagnant. Instead, listen to the small voice within and take a small step. Any step will do, but one inspired by your meditation or intuition is a good choice. The point is, he says, to keep moving. Keep your energy in action by taking action. The size of the step, the form of the step isn’t as important as the progression of action is to the overall picture.

As you take steps, you shift, and as you shift your perception shifts and one day you will see what you couldn’t see before. That’s how it works even if you know your vision and purpose. So, in the end, it’s the same thing whether you know your vision or you don’t. A step of any size every single day inspired by your intuition or higher Wisdom received through meditation or listening to the small still voice within.

The Way is to be the open vessel allowing the spark of creativity from the spiritual field flow through you and out to others, creating a life on purpose.

Visit www.MyGriefRelief.com to connect with Rev. Frank T. Elliott

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29th Verse of The Tao Te Ching

Ralph Alan Dale wrote a beautiful  book translating the Tao Te Ching, as written by Lao Tzu  more than 2,500 years ago. It’s beautiful because of the stylizing chosen for nature photographs and illustrations in hues of black, gray, white and highlights of shining sliver. Dale’s informative introduction and inspired commentary brings the past current. (publisher Barnes & Nobel,  Inc., 2005)

Verse 29, We are the World begins- “Those who have the most power and wealth treat the planet as a thing to be possessed, to be used and abused according to their own dictates. But the planet is a living organism, a Great Spiritual Integrity.”

There are those who will attempt to violate the Integrity, to control and possess the world. They will fail, and so will we all. As “The world’s pulse is our pulse…[it's] rhythm’s are our rhythms.”

Dale’s commentary discusses three illusions humans create. One is that we are separate from the world we live in. The second is that the world is here for us to abuse and use as we decide. It’s arrogance, he says, which the third illusion comes out of. That is that we are competitive with our own species. “This illusion allows us to accept the institutionalization of the principle that most of us are here on this planet to serve those who establish hegemony (authority, influence, direction) over us.”

As I look around our country and the world through the news coverage and current events reported in print and video, the illusions seem to be intact, more or less. 

 In  many places, these illusions are entrenched in the people’s thinking. They don’t ask questions. They cherish their belief that they are  separate from those they see as less fortunate than they, sick or needy.  I hear the word pathetic is used often as of late, to describe the suffering and disasters that have befallen many during these extreme economic times.

The health of the planet is athematic to them and they are uninterested in what a mutual influence means. The earth doesn’t have a pulse they would say. Only people and animals have a heart. Well, (with sarcasm) some people I would say do, that is true. And so does the planet and nature, the seen and unseen. (without sarcasm)

The same people and others too, blindly follow and serve as if institutionalized, those with power and wealth who are treating the planet as a thing to be possessed, to be used and abused according to their own dictates.

Is it possible times haven’t changed that much over the last 2,500 years?  I keep hearing about how fast the changes are coming these days. It feels that way, but let’s not confuse speed and chaos with reaching a higher consciousness.

Let’s wake up…now. Let’s lift the veils, clear the illusions, and fill up our hearts with compassion and love for others. Let’s combine our strengths with the earth and with each other, as if one.Together, going through the changes on the path to possibly a better connection. It’s up to us, isn’t it?

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Casey Anthony’s Case

Like so many, I am saddened and stunned by the not guilty verdict that came down yesterday for Casey Anthony.

What else but guilt could possibly explain a  mother not reporting her missing daughter to the police at the first thought that her 2 year old might be missing, much less 31 days later?

What else could possibly explain Casey not looking for her daughter every second and inquiring about the search during every minute of her phone calls from jail?

What else could explain the smell of death in her car?

And what about the lies she told the police about a non-existent nanny taking her daughter,  that led them on a time wasting a wild goose chase looking for the nanny?

Those closest to Casey tell about a woman without a conscience, a sociopath.  A person that has an anti-social personality disorder.

What does this mean? It means she is one-dimensional; she can only acknowledge her own “feelings.”  She is unable to experience empathy. She can fake sympathy, say the words she thinks will get her what she wants from someone else, but she is unable to know someone else’s feelings or imagine that there are feelings different from hers. But her feelings aren’t feelings as we know them. Sociopaths don’t feel, they think thoughts and call them feelings. In truth they are empty. They don’t sense an inner self, might describe it.

Talking with a  person with anti-social personality disorder  is a unique experience. Their sense of entitlement is overwhelmingly obvious to a psychologist and law enforcement personnel. They have no shame, no ethics and no insight into their behavior. They can get away with things no one else could. We’ve all met sociopaths or people with the traits if not a full blown personality disorder. They are not rare people.  Bernie Madoff is a stellar example.

Sociopaths have an uncanny ability to con people, making them fascinating to study. How can someone who has no feelings or empathy get right to the heart of the feelings in another who they want to manipulate?  Without hesitation they lie, scheme, use others, and take whatever they want or need, using any means they see fit to get their want fulfilled. Social norms, rules and laws don’t apply to them because they are better than everyone in every way, in their own mind’s eye.

They are one dimensional people, but don’t appear to be to the person  who gets sucked into their game of words,  their scheme, and people do. Even professionals and law enforcement can be fooled. Sociopaths are the best manipulators on the planet. Without a conscience you can tell any lie and not show any signs of the lie.

They can’t be treated successfully by any means known today in therapy or with medicine. And they do not learn from past mistakes. They don’t make mistakes in their view, other people are to blame for their circumstances.

So given all this, here is the scariest thing I’ve heard since the verdict was read making her release imminent: A year ago, Casey Anthony said that if she got out of prison she’d get pregnant and have another baby.

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July is an Auspicious Month

Auspicious: adj. With signs of success; favorable, promising, hopeful.

July is a month with holidays celebrating independence and freedom. Canada and the United States separated from England and in France, Bastille Day is on the 14th.

Lesser known freedom days include the United Provinces of Central America’s independence from Mexico in 1823,  abolition of slavery abolished in Suriname & Netherlands Antilles in 1863,  the first law against child labor occurs in 1874 in the Netherlands, Great-Britain signs accord for Independence of Iraq in 1930 and in 1971, Washington state becomes the first state to ban sex discrimination.

His Holiness the 14th Dalia Lama, the spiritual and political leader of Tibet, was born on July 6, Nelson Mandela on July 18,  Hugo Chavez on the 28th and Princess Diana was born today, the 1st of July.  

At difficult times like this in America’s government and governments in Africa, the Middle East, Greece and well, nearly everywhere around the globe where economics are strained, it’s good to look back and see that independence from seemingly unalterable reigning fields (web of energy) and actions from unawakened minds,  can be achieved.

A new web or field of energy  is achieved when enough hearts and minds form a new one. This can be for the good or for the bad.  Through meditation or focus on the highest good for humanity at this time, we can transmute the outdated energy force  into one which fosters decisions and actions that support all human beings as equal with enough food, clean water, health care and opportunity to live a life of choice, respect and dignity.

Much change can be accomplished through meditation or a focused mind. May it be for the highest good of all is my prayer.

As we get close to our Independence celebration why not support the troops as you watch a film about Gary Sinise’s band going to entertain the troops as a result of 9/11. Check out the Lt. Dan Band for the Common Good  MOVIE, premiering July 4 ONLINE and running 30 days. (Winner of several film festival awards)

17th century, Rubaiyats of Sarmand-
     The seeker of the Beloved finds Him
     through quiet stillness, not in frantic
           activity.
     That search is the purpose of life.

Namaskar

    

 

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Are You Your Body?

“There is little to tell. My consciousness has never associated itself with this temporary body. Before I came on the earth “I was the same.” As a little girl, “I was the same.” I grew into womanhood, but still “I was the same.” When the family in which I had been born make arrangements to gave this body married, “I was the same.” …And in front of you now, “I was the same.” Ever afterwards, though the dance of creation change around me, “I shall be the same.” Now and always one with That, “I am the same.”

The words of Anandamayi Ma

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Violent Video Games Ruling and the Brain

In a 7-to-2 decision, the Federal Supreme Court struck down California’s restriction on the sale of violent games to minors using the 1st Amendment as their reason. Justice Scalia likened the games to the protection given to books, plays and movies, adding Grimm’s Fairy Tales and High School reading lists as relevant previous examples.

Although my heart says keep the violent games from being made at all, the Court decision seems reasonable using that criteria.  Then I read this from Justice Alito.  The NY Times quotes him as saying “…the majority opinion was too quick to dismiss differences between current video games and other media.

The objective of one game is to rape a mother and her daughters, he wrote. In another, ‘players attempt to fire a rifle shot into the head of President Kennedy as his motorcade passes by the Texas School Book Depository.

Soon, he added, children may play three-dimensional high-definition games wearing equipment that will allow them to ‘actually feel the splatting blood from the blown-off head’ of a victim.”

Research on how our brain grows is clear. New learning and new experiences through our senses are shown to cause our brains to grow.   More connections between neurons are made, thus strengthening and enlarging our brain’s  structure.  After enough repetition of that connection, learning has been established.  The more connections in a brain, the larger it is when compared to images of it before learning has taken place. (We are talking about the tiniest of measurements here.)

Change in the brain’s structure can occur in as little as eight weeks as shown in studies of adults brains before and after the Mindfully Based Stress Reduction training. That is just one example of many studies that show the quickness with which our brain cells can grow when attention is set on a focus daily for a period of time. (See Micheal Baime’s article This is Your Brain on Mindfulness in the July issue of Shambhala Sun.)

Another example of this comes from the study of NY City cab drivers’ brains.  Areas of the brain concerned with time and space orientation and to memory, are significantly larger in the cabbys’ brains. There are many similar examples.

The video games in question are called virtual reality for a reason. For purposes of survival, our brain  and central nervous system is biologically hard-wired to fire quickly in the face of real or perceived danger or threat. When the right brain picks up on something in the environment that is novel or unknown to be safe, (after a quick determination by the left brain if enough time is allowed before action is automatically taken), it alerts our adrenal system to respond by taking a fight, flight or freeze reaction.

So now, my question formed by the implication of the ruling set by the Court yesterday, is this: Is the brain of a minor, whose brain is still developing, going to change and grow as a result of repeatedly seeing, listening, feeling, touching, and focusing their mind and behavioral reaction on a virtual (in vivo) violent action scenario?

The violent and anti-social (rape scene) learning taking place form neuronal firing patterns which grow the connections between brain cells so they will fire quickly in similar circumstances. This will strengthen particular cells to fire a certain pattern and regions stimulated by experiencing the game over time. That’s a sign that something has been learned. This explains why the game player gets better at the game over repeated use.

In time, when in similar situations, the same pattern will automatically fire.  Think about it. Comment’s welcome.

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Writing to Change the World by Pipher

This weekend I was nudged to take an old book from my shelf and started rereading a thought-provoking book by Mary Pipher, “Writing to Change the World. When I read it in late 2008,  it seemed like a lofty subject matter, way out of my reach at the time.  Change the world? Really… the world?

Today, I deeply resonate with the desire to contribute as I can to change the world for the better, no matter how small my contribution may be. Each day offers that opportunity. Each day I meditate and I pray. I ask to be shown where I can be of service through guiding me to see the need wherever I can help it and meet people and the need where they are.

When you change yourself, you change the world. If your intention is also to make the world a better place through speaking or writing, then you will find Pipher’s personal thoughts and observations, elaboration on writer’s formats and techniques to use and, many references and quotes from such inspirational people as Thich Nhat Hanh as motivating as I have.  Pipher’s book’s tagline reads, “An inspiring guide for transforming the world with words.”

What called me to share  today is taken from pages 202 and 203 in the chapter Speeches.  Pipher writes, “The largest component of presence may be tone of voice. In America today, the shrill, the bombastic, the hysterical, and the sensational often are the voices that are heard.  While I write this, I think with dismay about the mean-spirited talk radio shock jocks. They seem to be effective at gaining an audience, but they don’t make our world a better place. Their derision and ridicule degrade the culture for us all. (my emphasis) This kind of speech is the opposite of what I advocate. Hate speech objectifies, dehumanizes, and leads to bad behavior, including hurting the dehumanized without guilt.  It is antithetical to I-thou speech, which leads to civil discourse, and is the social cement necessary to preserve this house called America.”

Pipher continues, “All of us are more likely to be influenced by speakers we find sympathetic… Authenticity is the key. My best advice is to love your audiences. Be present with them. Form a small community in the time you have together. If you love them as neighbors and family members, they will know it, and they will allow you into their hearts. Then you can create moments for them in which transformation is possible.”

Mary Pipher, PhD’s book was published five years ago, in 2006. Dr. Pipher is interested in how American culture affects the mental health of its people. She is a therapist, trained in anthropology and psychology. This is her seventh book, out of eight, the last being  autobiographic in style. Interestingly, the book at B&N was shelved in the reference/writing section. Here it is through Amazon: Writing to Change the World.

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Human Magic by Brock Travis, conclusion

Human Magic by Brock Travis from his understanding of the Master Djwahl Khul.

part 4 of 4 continues:
CallingCalling is not merely about earning a living,
but also bringing Soul gifts to meet world needs.

Calling may be the deep urging
to right wrongs or to build bridges,
to solve problems or to answer questions,
or to ease the pain of others
or to help them find their way.

Calling may be the sense of craft -
I was born to do this!
the skill honed by many lives.

We may find our calling through an encounter.
Perhaps someone was there to meet our need,
& we wish to be there for others with such need.
Or perhaps no one was there to meet our need,
& we wish such loss for no other being.

We may find our calling through synchronicity -
many doors will close & one door will open.

We may find our calling by doing the work
that simply presents itself before us.

Or, if we are ready
to bring the gifts of our Soul
to meeting the needs of the world,
then we may ask for help & it will come.

Go to a place with height or water.
Quiet yourself & prayerfully invoke -
Let there be appropriate position.
Repeat the invocation daily.

Remember -
The needs of the time are very great.
Your grief & fear are shared by the world.
The Soul does not choose to waste its gifts.
What you are seeking is seeking you.
But the appropriate position may not appear familiar.
So prepare yourself to serve in ways yet to be learned.

Wisdom, Family, Calling

These are the basics of human magic.

The human body is itself a magical wand.
If the head, the heart & the hands are aligned,
then the person becomes a conduit for Creation.

If you align your mind with a source of Wisdom,
align your heart with the greater Family,
align the actions of your body with your deeper Calling;
then the Will, Love & Light of the Soul will flow through you,
creating a way for the gift that meets the need.

A brief word of caution:
White Magic creates selflessly.
Black Magic creates selfishly.
Few of us are perfectly pure.
The best way to tell is this -
Does it help?…Or…Does it harm?
No unselfish prayer goes unanswered.
(The Master Djwahl Khul through Alice Bailey)

The Plan of Love & Light
Light is the energy inherent to existence itself
& is the original Life essence of all beings.

Love is the compassion intrinsic to consciousness
& is the deep Soul bond uniting all beings.

The Plan is drawn from the Cosmic Wisdom
unfolding itself from Spirit through Matter
exerting a pressure within all beings -
a summons to develop toward the Divine.

The Plan is not a philosophy or a theology or an ideology.
It is a living lamp & a living fount of Light & Love.

The Plan is the point of focus
for Those Who ground the Soul
upon the body of this world
joining all who choose to serve
into a single global force.

What We are doing on this planet
is co-creating a civilization
conducive to consciousness.

Are you willing
to bring your own Soulʼs gifts
fully to meeting the need
of that Plan?

ʻI donʼt know what that would be yet…ʼ
Or
ʻI wonʼt be ready for that until or unless…ʼ
Or
ʻI fear that I might fail in some way…ʼ
Or
ʻI need to do this or that other thing first…ʼ
None of that is what is asked.

The question is – are you willing?
The answer is a yes or a no.

Let the body be quiet.
Let the heart be quiet.
Let the mind be quiet.
I am the Soul -
I offer myself in service
to the Plan of Love & Light.

OM!

If you will solemnly perform this offering,
sustaining a coherent focus over time,
then We will find a way to help you
know your own part in the Plan.

The Blessed Ones are not & yet They are…
The Blessed Ones love not, yet offer Love Divine…
The Blessed Ones know not, yet know all…
The Blessed Ones can take a form, yet are not then the form…
Naught holds the Blessed Ones,
neither Deities nor form, neither desire, nor mind.
Pure life They are -
pure being & pure will, pure love & pure intent.
(The Master Djwahl Khul via Alice Bailey)

END
Part 1

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Human Magic, Part 3

Human Magic by Brock Travis,  from his understanding of the Master Djwahl Khul

part 3 of 4 continues:
Such a life contributes to the co-creation of a civilization intentionally designed to develop the consciousness of humanity.
Because an alignment of spiritual, relational & vocational dimensions of a human being creates a vortex of force that spiritualizes materiality & materializes spirituality.

1. Wisdom
Wisdom is not just belief or teachings,
but a Divine living field of ideas & energy.

Wisdom is a vibrant source of
Divine Will, Love & Light.

Wisdom is grounded by
the Masters, Angels & Servers
of any world.

The sincere seeker may connect
with a Center or Ashram of this energy field
by offering himself or herself,
with a steady focused effort,
in service to its Great Cause -
The Divine Plan of Love & Light.

Such a person will come into contact.

Perhaps he or she will find
the vast depths of the great books
of worldwide esoteric literature.

Perhaps he or she will be invited
into a course of study or the work of a school.

Perhaps such a one will be granted
profound friendship & intense training
apropos to oneʼs journey toward service.

Perhaps such a one will labor
for a lifetime in apparent isolation & obscurity
guided & guarded by the Unseen & Unheard.

Perhaps such a one will perform a service.

Perhaps such a one will labor
for a lifetime in apparent isolation & obscurity
guided & guarded by the Unseen & Unheard.

Perhaps such a one will perform a service
upon the busy noisy stage of the world
with no conscious memory
of Masters or Angels.

Each & all of these ways
bring the seeker ever deeper
into the noumenal vortex through which
Light & Love enter the world.

2. Family
Family is not only a genetic linkage,
but a lineage of service & rebirth.

Family is the cohort of other beings
with which one moves through
oneʼs many lives in this world.

Family is ultimately all beings -
the Spiritual Kingdom,
the Human Kingdom,

& the Animal, Vegetable, Mineral Kingdoms.

There are always members of a family
on both sides of the veil of life & death.
The human being is never really alone.

There will be a Master, an Adept,
Who guides all toward the Path.

There will be an Angel, a Deva,
Who guards each through this world.

There will be brothers & sisters
in dense bodies & in light bodies
who stand by & watch over
the growth of every member.

There may be familiar animals,
perhaps a dog or a cat or a horse,
who are reborn as friends of
a person or a family.

Human beings tend to be reborn
again & again into a special region -
perhaps a mountain, or a forest, a river or an island.

It is both karma & dharma that gathers us together.
Not only the effects of prior causes -
the ongoing history of betrayals & sacrifices.
But also the choices of the Soul -
decisions to serve some cause of Love & Light.

It is this expanding network that conditions humanity.

Continues in part 4, the last part.

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Human Magic continues

Human Magic by Brock Travis, from his understanding of  the Master Djwahl Khul

Part 2 of 4 continues:
This realization is the foundation of the New Era of Light & Love.
The threefold implications of this realization will be transformative:

1. Divinity
The consciousness of the individual transcends the boundaries
of his or her physical, emotional & cognitive existence.
This is the basis of the emergent ideas of holism & participation.
The study of the Soul will reveal it to be a universal entity.
The identity of human beings will be demonstrated to be
boundless energy – We are in essence Divine.

2. Unanimity
The consciousness of the individual transcends the boundaries
of individuality & enters into a universal community of One Life.
This is the basis of the emergent ideas of ecology & inclusion.
The study of the Soul will reveal it to be shared by all beings.
The identity of humanity will be established as
a unity & wholeness – We are of one Soul.

3. Goodwill
Holism is the idea that beings are body, heart, mind, Soul & Spirit.
Participation is the idea that such beings must be self-determining.
Ecology is the idea that entities are co-arising, inter-existent, systems.
Inclusion is the idea that such entities must be mutually sustaining.
The New Age was shocked into being with Auschwitz & Hiroshima,
awakening the great emancipatory & humanitarian movements,
drawing these four ideas into the awareness of humanity.
(As the Four Freedoms – of Faith, of Speech, from Fear, from Want.)
The fact of the Soul is the foundation of a conscious civilization,
a living world culture striving for universal benevolence.

Human Magic is not intended to be
the workings of a solitary sorcerer
attempting to create in service
to his or her own habits, desires, beliefs.
Human Magic is the conscious function
of ensouled beings with minds, hearts & bodies
living in a world amongst other such beings.
Human Magic must be conscious of its duty to be a conduit between
that which is above – the kingdom of Masters & Angels & the Soul,
&
that which is below – the kingdoms of living animal, vegetable & mineral forms.
Human Magic must be harmless.
Human Magic must be humane.
Not narcissistic, but responsible.
Not egocentric, but compassionate.
Not selfish, but selfless.
Human Magic is Group Work.
Human Magic serves God’s Plan.

There are three aspects to basic human magic:
the spiritual, the relational & the vocational.
A harmonious balance between these three
makes for a good life of purpose & meaning.
Such a life will help to bring
the Kingdom of the Soul
fully through the Garden of the Earth.
Such a life is drawn ever-deeper into
the great Group of Souls that
serves Godʼs Plan of Love & Light.
Such a life contributes to the co-creation of
a civilization intentionally designed to
develop the consciousness of humanity.
Because an alignment of
spiritual, relational & vocational
dimensions of a human being
creates a vortex of force
that spiritualizes materiality
& materializes spirituality.

Continues in Part 3

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Human Magic by Brock Travis

Human Magic by Brock Travis, 2011

Thank you Brock for allowing me to reprint your ebook on esoteric spirituality and the Master Djwahl Khul.  I know you are offering it in love and wanting to shine the light for others who may feel the spark to look further into The Ageless Wisdom.

Introduction – The Basics
I. Wisdom – Energy & Ideas
II. Family: Rebirth & Service
III. Calling – the Soulʼs Gifts Meet the Need
Conclusion – The Plan & The Group

Introduction – The Basics

Twenty-three years ago my wife Annelle hit me on the head
with a hard-bound copy of Ponder on This, by Alice Bailey.
That blue book answered questions for me & resolved problems for me.
Two or three years later Annelle invited me into a meditative ceremony
in which she introduced me to her Master -
the Tibetan, also known as Djwahl Khul.
That encounter was the commencement of
a dialogue from which these writings emerge.
Annelleʼs commitment to detachment & discernment
has long served for me as a model of spiritual empiricism
& I offer it to the reader as a method of assessment -
Assume nothing as confirmed until or unless it reveals itself.
Accept the postulates in these writings as hypotheses only.
If they are realities, then the evidence will demonstrate.

May the Holy Ones,
Whose pupils we aspire to become,
show us the light we seek;
give us the strong aid of their compassion & their wisdom.
There is a peace which passes understanding;
It abides in the hearts of those who live in the eternal.
There is a power that makes all things new;
it lives & moves in those who know the Self as one.
May that peace brood over us, that power uplift us,
until we stand where the One Initiator is invoked,
until we see His star shine forth.
May the peace & the blessings
of the Holy Ones
pour forth over the worlds.
(The Master Djwahl Khul via Alice Bailey)

The Basics
Humans are the beings
that stand between
the realm of Spirit
& the realm of Matter.
We are both Angels of the Presence of the Divine
& dwellers on the threshold of density.
Magic is the art of bringing
that which is above – the Soul Life
through that which is below – the form world.
While it is an axiom
that thought directs energy,
creation is complex.
We do not create our world alone.
This truth is the mark of the New Age.

The New Age will be based upon the fact of the Soul -
the realization that we are transcendent consciousness.

If I can know & rule my senses, then I am not merely my senses.
If I can know & rule my feelings, then I am not merely my feelings.
If I can know & rule my thoughts, then I am not merely my thoughts.

I am the Soul – consciousness transcending the body, heart & mind.
This realization is the foundation of the New Era of Light & Love.

The threefold implications of this realization will be transformative:
1. Divinity
2. Unanimity
3. Goodwill

Continued in Part 2

Brock wants to  thank Nancy Davison & Jeriel Smith for their editing & support during the writing of this ebook.

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Now Consciousness: Exploring the World Beyond Thought

May your new year, 2011, be filled with peaceful awareness, higher consciousness, and love deep within that flows out of and back to you. Share what you know and who you are, as Soul, with others. it’s your gift and meant to be given.

Below are meaningful concepts you might want to ponder or use together or separate as journal  prompts. They are written by Albert Blackburn in his book “Now Consciousness: exploring the world beyond thought”, Idylwild Books, Ojai CA 1983.

- “A person using only knowledge and the thought process will always be limited to the content of consciousness.”

-”Instinct is closely related to, in not synonymous with wisdom.”

-”We can acquire knowledge and we can become wise through the right us of learning, but this is still within the field of individual consciousness and part of the accumulative process. The ultimate use of wisdom is the realization of the limitations of consciousness as we know it. It is wisdom that can finally lead to self discovery, which is the birth of intelligence. A saturation point must be reached within our consciousness: we must see the self-enclosing nature of thought. The never-ending rat race must be seen for what it really is. This can happen at any point in time. It is wisdom which can open our eyes to the facts of life.”

-”If there is this other thing, which we will call intelligence, it is beyond the limits of consciousness and therefore and therefore unconditioned. Intelligence might be called the consciousness of God, or Life, in its universal and all pervading sense. It is always in the present now, and can never be associated with the idea of past or future.”

-”Perception of intelligence is only in the moment, when thought is not. In the interval between two thoughts, intelligence is. The awakening to life is the awakening to intelligence. Intelligence, always there, like the sun waiting to illumine life’s path when the clouds are dispelled by awareness, …”

These quotes are found on page 68 and 69.

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Nature and Meditation

I invited Delaine Gately to share her personal story of initial emergence into a more authentic life for her. She titles it Canyon Memories

“I found freedom on the Colorado River, riding the rapids at the bottom of the Grand Canyon.  The great Mother River taught me to honor myself. The canyon, that mystical place was so immense.  The colors so rich the waters of the river were constantly changing from deep greens to butter scotch gold.  The walls became rainbows of rust, peach, creams and browns all so beautiful.   My life seemed small in comparison.

There was something about the clear hot air and the uncontrolled plunge of the waters that stirred my soul. I would spend my nights laying on the desert floor looking into the star filled sky; I could hear the wild burrows bay echoing off the dark canyon walls, as I watched the bats swirled like black clouds in the sky.  The stars were so clear and bright against a blue black sky. I fell into my soul. My heart opened and I could see for the first time that I held the key to my future; I was the one who had to change.

I felt mystical shivers down my spine, as I became one with the spirit land.  Looking in to my soul, I heard my heart cry; it was a prime evil coming from deep with in.  No more lies, no more deceit; I found the truth there on the desert floor I heard my heart confess, I had lied and deceived my own soul.  I had accepted betrayal.  I was the thief of my own peace. I alone held the key to my contentment. I did not loose my happiness I exchanged it for anger and pain I gave it away and only I could get it back, I had to change my life’s direction.  To be true to myself I could no longer pretend that he was the reason for my pain I controlled my own destiny. I had to break the cycle; I had to cut the ties that bound me so tight I had to break free, I had to let go of a dream that would never come true.  

I alone was responsible for my own soul. I had to defend and protect myself.  The beauty and strength of the canyon gave me a knowing of my own inner truth, and that understanding had set me free. Deep in that ancient canyon, my life changed. No longer drifting in despair I would take the reins; I would take control of my future.  Those dark and mystical nights on the canyon floor opened my eyes I finally understood the lies I had told myself.  In that great canyon at the river edge, I found my truth. I found a new determination, I had been liberated I was finally free to begin living my own life As I packed my bag and bedroll, I knew my life had changed I left my broken self-back there in the sand. A strong new woman stepped into the bus for the long hot ride up and out of that Grand Canyon; my life would never be the same.

JUNE OF 1979 I TRAVELED 14DAYS, 246 MILES DOWN THE COLORADO RIVER FROM LAKE POWELL THROUGH THE GRAND CANYON TO LAKE MEADE JULY OF 1979 AFTER 23 YEARS OF A FAILED MARRIAGE I FILED FOR DIVORCE I HAVE NO REGRETS I NEVER LOOKED  BACK” 

Thank you Delaine for sharing the story of your liberation within.
My take-aways from her experience are:
1.Take responsibility for our circumstances in the material and spiritual world,
with guidance from within and above
2. Summon the courage needed instead of activating denial or complacency
3. Let your soul lead you
4. Meditate to hear your soul or spend some time in nature – it will occur naturally

What do you take away? Please share your comment below.

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Thankful for Meditation Poem

I wrote this poem after meditation one morning at Meditation Mount. It is my expression of Lucille Cedercrans teachings, and in particular to her book Nature of the Soul. Her teachings are similar to Alice Bailey and D.K’s work, but newer.

Service Meditation

God I am your conduit for energy
your vehicle on earth
collecting and expanding your love
sharing it with the passion and girth of the truth
Universal Oneness and Wisdom from above.

I hear the people’s cries for answers
tears falling like rain
eyes looking up, searching and confused
I see you, I say in meditation,
I know you and feel your pain.

Universal energy trancends the distance
in time and space
flowing through me to
the entire human race
until they let it come directly to themselves.

Serving through medittion
is lovingly standing by
with an open crown to the sky
where the Masters know and serve
to bring the Divine plan to earth.

Copyright 2010 Kimberly Wulfert

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