Is Meditation a High Form of Service?

A lively and interesting discussion was started by June Meagher  for her Healer’s and Therapists group on LinkedIn. She titled her discussion Words to Encourage You- do you have any?  The words of Sri Sathya Sai Baba (Indian Spiritual leader, b.1926) were submitted by another member of the group -

 “Life is a challenge, meet it!
Life is a dream, realize it!
Life is a game, play it!
Life is Love, enjoy it!”

 “You have it in your power to make your days on Earth a path of flowers, instead of a path of thorns.”

“You must be a Lotus, unfolding its petals when the Sun rises in the sky, unaffected by the slush where it is born or even the water which sustains it!”

“Service is the highest spiritual discipline. Prayer and meditation, or knowledge of scripture, cannot help you reach the goal as quickly as service can. Service has a double effect, it extinguishes the ego and gives bliss.”

My thoughts-
Sri Sathya Sai Baba’s words are beautiful, inspired and form images often used in meditation. That said, I have a different take on meditation than that stated above which I want to share here for your consideration. Baba says “Service is the highest spiritual discipline. Prayer and meditation, or knowledge of scripture, cannot help you reach the goal as quickly as service can. Service has a double effect, it extinguishes the ego and gives bliss.”

I agree that service is the highest form of  spiritual discipline. In my understanding , meditation on behalf of the planet, world and humanity IS a high form of service, service through meditation.

As a group we meditate regularly together to bring in the light on behalf of sending it out to the world in need. We focus, for example, on Haiti, the Gulf leak, world peace, or simply hold the space open for the light to go where it is needed.

Esotericists believe that our fundamental task is to handle energy rightly; the energy streaming through us, the energy which is us and all kingdoms of living things and the energy that makes our environment. Energy that effects any aspect of energy effects the whole. As our consciousness of these subtle energies grows the effect of our minds and thoughts and emotions and actions have upon them also grows. Meditation is an interchange of energies and can be directed to where there is great need. Energy follows thought. Empathy, compassion, peaceful action, allowing and not clinging are other energetic ways of directing energy in service to the whole.

The late 18th to 19th century English poet William Blake put it like this “For not one sparrow can suffer and the Whole universe not suffer also.” Blake also wrote “To see the world in a grain of sand…” and “Energy is eternal delight.”

What matters is the perception that we are all in this together, one for all and all for one. Meditation is a service to  both our own growth for highest good of all and in the service  to humanity and the planet’s growth for the highest good of all.

What are your thoughts on this, is meditation a service?

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A Quote to Journal or Meditate On

“I think perhaps I have gotten more out of life than it contains.”  Natalie Clifford Barney

I believe it is possible to get more out of life than it contains. how? By living in awareness, in conscious alignment with the unseen realms of spirit that is all around you and one with you.

Life is so much greater than what you can see. What we see is infinitesimal compared to what we don’t see but can know. How? We can know, to some extent, through meditating, journaling, creativity, sounds and music.

What do you think about it?

photo courtesy of Gary Brenemen  http://www.astrobirdphoto.com/

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Dr. Dan Siegel, Mindsight & the Blue Man Group Video – Woo Hoo!

I recently attended the first academic gathering of mental health professionals and complementary health care providers such as nurses, acupuncturists, yoga instructors,  nutritionists, biologists, brain scientists, with the focus on integrating all the useful disciplines to help a person return to or develop their highest mental health.

The reasoning behind this conference was the dream of Dr. Andrew Weil, MD, professor, author. he developed the integrated approach to healing at the University of Arizona School of Medicine , (I attended  UofA as an undergrad) and  through this conference he presented a new field of psychology/psychiatry and treatment for  conditions of mental health called Integrative Mental Health.

About 700 people from all over the US and Canada were  in attendance. The presenters were the cream of the crop leaders in their respective fields. The  Arizona Center for Integrative Medicine, National Institute of Health, UCLA, Harvard, U of Minnesota were represented among other institutions.  It was a feast for the heart, brain and spirit of everyone I had the pleasure to meet there.

Today I will share some videos made by one the presenters, Dr. Dan Siegel, MD , psychiatrists, brain researcher and scientist , author, speaker, on the faculty of  UCLA , Co-Director of the Mindful Awareness Research Center, and Director of Mindsight Institute, and all around fun and brilliant guy!

Researchers say laughing opens us to new connections  occurring  within our brains.  Get ready to laugh and learn about Mindsight. Mindsight is what Dr. Dan learned on his incredible journey into the brain to discover how the mind moves along its waves. Yes folks, the mind and brain are not the same.


Dr. Dan Siegel’s latest books
Mindsight: The New Science of Personal Transformation

The Mindful Brain: Reflection and Attunement in the Cultivation of Well-Being

Not yet released- The Mindful Therapist: A Clinician’s Guide to Mindsight and Neural Integration

One of his early books where he introduces the brain and it’s functions  as he was seeing them in a new way, pre Mindsight books out recently, pub. in  2001- The Developing Mind: How Relationships and the Brain Interact to Shape Who We Are

Some links of interest:
2010 Integrative Mental Health conference, Phoenix, AZ

University of Arizona Center for Integrative Medicine , Tucson, AZ

Mindsight Institute , Los Angeles, CA

Hay House, Inc.


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What if You Couldn’t Smile?

Check out this brief documentary by a woman who has facial paralysis and hear how it effects her interacting with strangers. Thank you to the NY Times for providing this article titled “A Face Without Emotion” produced by Karen Barrow.
http://www.nytimes.com/interactive/2010/04/05/health/20100406_facialparalysis/index.html

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Are You Feeling Trapped in Your Life?

Many people are feeling trapped today. They feel trapped in a job they don’t like but fear they won’t be able to find another. Others feel trapped in their relationship with their spouse, parent, friend, child, boss, sibling, roommate, and on it goes. Many, many people feel trapped by their financial situation, their credit card debt and their mortgage. Others feel trapped in their bodies by their weight, illness, disability, color of their skin, facial features or height. People today feel trapped by technology and all the demands on their free time because of it.

Some parents feel trapped by the many demands expected of them at work, home, and school concerning their parenting. Many adults have responsibilities to care for both the young and old whom they love and care about.The list could go on forever, but where do you feel trapped in your life?

Stressed out people develop symptoms in their body, cognition and emotionally. Their symptoms appear to increase when they take note of how trapped they feel. I say notice because many people numb themselves in order to avoid the feelings and awareness and the symptoms increase in an effort to get their attention.

People numb themselves in ways that then become secondary problems, and it is these conditions of being that often get them into bigger trouble, or therapy. What helps people to numb? Gambling, drinking, drugs, eating, not eating, exercise, sleeping more, insomnia, watching TV or movies or the Internet most of their free time. Physical signs of stress show up in their body as higher blood pressure, memory problems, lethargy, depression, anxiety, nightmares, and poor concentration and judgment.

It’s a domino effect that just keeps on ticking off the hours, days, and weeks lost to their numbing of their self, their mind, and their emotions in order to get through the day and the next. People don’t realize they are numb to their feelings and thoughts until something, often major, knocks them out of their self-sustaining loop of numbness. It’s like a bolt of lightning in a good way because with the pattern stopped, they have a chance to feel something unfamiliar, but known — their self.

Feeling trapped and thus stressed out is so common, all of us can relate on some level. And it’s well documented in psychological and medical science that stress really ‘does a number’ on our bodies; it can kill us. It may take some time, but I’m as serious as a heart attack here. (Pun intended.)

So what might help them to get un-numb, so that they can begin to take their thoughts, feelings, and body back when still trapped in a situation for awhile longer?

In pondering this situation, I realized that a person like Nelson Mandela when in prison could find freedom as he turned inside to meditate or talk to God. In other words – he was free, not in a prison at all because his life of substance and truth was within him, not outside him. He felt the freedom, the love, the space, the possibilities within meditating with God, Source, his soul, or just simply meditating within himself.

Did Helen Keller take refuge within? Of course she did! The child Anne Frank was able to go within by journaling her thoughts in a diary. The power of spirit came through her to her pen. Victor Frankl found God, beauty and freedom from bondage, within. His imagination, mind, thoughts were his to do with as he pleased. Even a concentration camp could not take his inner world away from him.

Albert Einstein believed that one’s imagination is more important than knowledge. My take on this is this: we can use our knowledge with our imagination, but knowledge alone is stagnant information, data. Add imagination to knowledge, and it grows. Imagination is organic and unlimited.

What this means is that we are never really trapped. The entrapment is an illusion. Viewing the situation from within might help find an out, another choice, or the patience to deal with it longer. But this isn’t my point here.

I am suggesting, really believing, that by turning inward and viewing the world from a different point of view, we find freedom. The illusion we call our life is filled with angst, but within each of us is our personal connection to the All, the spiritual realm. And in the spiritual realm there is wide open, free-for-the-taking, beautiful, loving, supportive, gentle, accepting, unconditionally loving FREEDOM. There are no traps there.

Getting in touch with that each day makes the traps vanish. You won’t see the situation the same way. It will feel different. You will behave differently without much effort or thought. Your freedom is within no matter what the traps are. Your body will de-stress, symptoms will reverse, and behaving to numb out will not be an option or desirable any longer. You will be truly free.

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Living Life from our Soul

Prompt- “I am receptive to the purpose, power, and will of God, as it is stepped down to me from my soul. I serve that purpose, accept its power, and do the will of God.

This morning after meditation, as most mornings I journaled.  What flowed freely through my hand today I sensed was meant for me to share here with you who find it. Thank you.  “I am my soul’s nuturer, carrier, protector, earthly eyes, ears, voice, taste, pleasure, creator, heart, compassionate giver, wisdom, intuition, worker, server, home beautifier, connecting my soul to community, spirit, the animal and plant kingdoms and to God, as is possible from an earthly Being.

My job here is to open eyes and hearts and minds to the power you hold within to help your selves and live a life of love and service to the greater good. This service comes in millions of forms.  Your service may be to one or to many. As a mother,  doctor,  gardener,  janitor,  musician,  piano teacher,  volunteer,  business person,  teacher,  scientist,  writer, poet, artist, explorer, adventurer, health practitioner – whatever form your service takes, it is service when you have the conscious intention to do your best at it with the highest good for all as your motivation.

It is being fully present in your service, giving from your heart, then your mind, being fair in decisions, and kind in your interactions with others that matters the most. Holding the vision of your connectedness to every living thing in the forefront of your service will help to shine the light of harmony and right relationships on your path.

Stumbling upon pebbles and rocks, going around boulders is part of blazing your trail, your adventure, forming your milestones of self realization.

There are no billboards on your trail, but directions are everywhere you look and are noticed most easily in meditation, or when stilling your mind and intuiting.

Life is beautiful. The journey is a gift given to you and one you are giving to the world too. It is a co-creation. You are co-creating with the Universe or God. Your soul has an overriding soul and as you live this journey your body is housing your soul for the co-creation YOUR SOUL DESIRES TO ACCOMPLISH THIS LIFETIME  FOR THE ADVANCEMENT OF HUMANITY on earth and beyond. We are all ONE and what effects us on earth, effects those on a spirit level of existence too.

Although your steps and life may be but a tiny dot on the map of life, your energy is connected to the whole of All.  You either give back and circulate the life force/energy within you or you suck off others, stagnating, hoarding, withdrawing from expressing your life force. Let it out. Share it in any way to give it back out again AND YOU WILL BE IN THE FLOW OF LIVING THE LIFE ENERGY OF HUMANITY. 

You will feel the connection when you acknowledge the connection. And how do you begin? By holding the connection to everything with the intention to serve in the highest good of all concerned and give your life energy from your heart and then your mind.

Be well.

Namaste.

If you will, please share your response to the prompt quote below and share your energy and voice with us too.

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Fear of Blogging My Voice Be Gone!

Woman's nursing corset from 1890

In a writing class on June 6, 2009,  I was asked to respond to this question in a stream of consciousness manner-

In what way is your world so cramped
 God can barely squeeze in?

First I wrote “soul” above “world”. Both applied to me, but Soul takes precedence in my mind. Then I followed with-

“My left brain is planning
I am on the computer so much
I’m not getting out to nature
I’m not exercising and walking regularly
I’m not playing music as often

My soul is yearning for
space to breath
yelling to be heard
aching for attention
Today My Dear Soul, is your day
you can lead
You can breath fully
You are the center of my attention

The courage to write my personal thoughts on living in Source as much of the time as possible is a soul-calling. I want to step-out and take this co-created divine responsibility, but the fear in me, it seems, is greater.

I feel vulnerable, that I won’t be good enough, and that my lack of authentic consciousness will be evident. Big gaping holes or explanations that don’t apply or make sense will fill the blog page.

I want to be Change, come from my heart to allow me to change and step into, seek and compile this co-created next step into my power, my contribution, my divine part, my place, it’s needed as part of the whole.”

Today, Jan. 27, 2009 I took a step out of my comfort zone by posting this. It is a signal to me as the start of blogging my thoughts here, not just in my journal, regardless of the fear it brings up for me to do so.

Prompt- What would you write to answer that question- In what way is your world so cramped God can barely squeeze in? Try the stream of consciousness writing first. This is a free flow of writing whatever comes up for you. Then take a new sheet of paper and write with conscious intention what you think about what came up in the first writing?

I hope you will find a lost or fearful part of yourself as I did.  Why not leave a comment  to broadcast your new intention  as I have done by blogging  this post today.

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Take a Mindful Moment Out for this Visual Meditation

Do you have 6 minutes? I was moved by the music, poetry in words really, of Jason Mraz’s song “Life is Wonderful” to make a visual montage. Most of the photos are ones I’ve taken, some are stock. I’m no photographer, but they do portray serenity and nature’s beauty. The beauty of Ojai, the sky from my backyard, and views from Meditation Mount are easy on the eyes even when using my cell phone camera.

As you experience the music and images, allow other physical sensations to come to the surface for you. maybe you’ll sway with the music, maybe you’ll smell the flowers or ocean air, maybe you’ll tap along with the refrain or sing it. Whatever you do, you will be in the moment with your mind/body/spirit and emotions. I hope you enjoy this completely amature montage, then try making one for yourself.

If the video or sound aren’t working for you, use this link instead

http://www.jukeboxalive.com/montage.php?montage_id=2490469

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Giving as the Way to Relieve Stress over the Holidays

empty bowlsWelcome to tip #2 for de-stressing your holidays this year. The topic today is giving.

Giving is the best way to relieve stress at any time of the year. You might be saying something like “Giving?? Are you kidding? that’s all I ever do is give, give and give some more until I’m all worn out. I give to my kids, spouse, work, friends, and elderly parents.  I have nothing left to give.”

I hear this loud and clear from people all over the world. From their point of view it is correct and logical. I see that. I feel for them.  I’ve been there. “So what is different now?” you may be asking me as you read this.

Giving from an empty bowl is what I believe describes those who are worn out and worn thin from giving so much to others.  You are kind heartfelt givers who spend  no time on replenishing your own bowl with spiritual food.

To fill our souls with our connection to God, or our Source, we are able to sustain more of anything that demands more from us. This time of year there are many demands on our time and resources, in addition to the regular routine. If we are pulling from the same place to cover all of the demands, how can we possibly meet them?  Wanting so much to do it all and enjoy the season, it’s understandable when we are at the bottom of our bowl we feel frustration, guilt, depression, even anger, and much sadness that we aren’t fulfilling our desire to give.

A primary lesson any spiritual student must learn, and those further along in their seeking must continue to practice, is allowing and receiving love, insight, acceptance, guidance, and more love from their spiritual Source, whatever that is for them. Our ego mind, our belief we should do it on our own, and the materialistic temptations that surround our daily life get in the way of us allowing and receiving  from our Source.

Both mindfulness and silent meditation facilitate the state of alignment with Source and openness in our hearts and minds to receive all we need from Source. This fills our bowl, tops off our reservoir, from which giving to others pours forth. Nothing else fills our soul than receiving and accepting the gifts from Source.

The gifts are the same to everyone, we are all equal. We are all one and the same. It is in our willingness to direct our free will to take the time to open to spirit throughout the day and for a period of time with the intention of stilling our minds, that we fill up our empty bowl each day. From a full bowl we can give without it taxing us so completely we miss the joy of the season.

Giving to a needy parent, or cranky relative, or difficult child is gentler, lighter, easier, more natural when the giving is from this bowl of spirit rather than our mind. When we have no more money to spend, it  becomes apparent to us that it is with our hearts that we exchange the true gift we have to share. Giving (anything) from our heart wide open and full,  will feel satisfying to all who receive from us, on a level far beyond that gift given from an empty bowl.

Remember 3 things about giving:
1. It is when we are giving that we receive the most back.  
2. We can not give that which we don’t already have.
3. That which we want, if we give it first, we will have.

If these concepts seem like mind twisters, why not open a discussion at your holiday table about them. I’ll end with a saying from Lao-Tzu and the Tao, the Way:
“One who has a man’s wings
And a woman’s also
Is in himself a womb of the world”
And being a womb of the world,
Continuously, endlessly,
Gives birth:
One who, preferring light,
Prefers darkness also
Is in himself an image of the world
And, being an image of the world,
Is continuously, endlessly 
The dwelling of creation.

The Way of Life
The Quotable Spirit, ed. by Peter Lorie and Manuela Dunn Mascetti


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